My family chose Arrow because we believed they shared our commitment to keeping children safe, stable, and connected to their relatives whenever possible. Unfortunately, our experience has been far more discouraging than we ever expected.
From the start, communication was inconsistent and unclear. Important questions often went unanswered for long periods of time, and the information we did receive was frequently contradictory or incomplete. This added a great deal of unnecessary stress to an already complicated process.
One of the most troubling issues we experienced was a prolonged delay in moving forward with our verification, even though we are a kinship family already providing a stable, long-term home. Despite offering all requested documentation and pointing the agency toward the applicable state rules designed to support timely kinship certification, we were told we could not progress, without meaningful explanation, follow-through, or a willingness to re-examine the policies they were relying on.
It became very clear that Arrow is extremely policy-focused but not particularly child-centered. Instead of approaching situations with flexibility, critical thinking, or urgency for the well-being of the children involved, we experienced a rigid, procedural approach that overlooked the bigger picture. We also found that the agency is not the advocating or problem-solving type. When challenges arose, there was no sense of partnership, advocacy, or willingness to push for solutions that aligned with what was best for the children or the family.
We entered this process hopeful and committed to doing everything properly. We expected guidance, transparency, and support (the essential qualities any family should be able to rely on when working with an agency). Instead, we were left feeling dismissed, uninformed, and unsupported.
I am sharing this review so other families can move forward with a clearer understanding of what to expect. I genuinely hope Arrow will take steps to improve their communication, increase their advocacy efforts, and operate with a more child-centered approach so kinship families receive the support they deserve.