Phoenix Neuman
San Marcos, CA
Went in for a 2nd opinion ultrasound. Catherine (or Katherine) was really sweet in explaining the whole process and what their purpose and mission is. Dorene, the nurse, was really informative (more informative than my regular care team) and extremely kind. They both provided warmth, empathy, and did not have a judgement-based bone in their bodies. Their only goal is to help you in your pregnancy & presenting options as well as educational and spiritual resources. I won't be needing their services any longer as of now, I think it's beneficial to seek assistance from them if you are in limbo about your options for pregnancy. Their facility is also extremely clean, which is nice to see from a non-profit medical organization. They also really really really take time to ensure you feel safe, whether it's during the experience or in your personal relationships.
We discussed faith a little bit, I expressed my concern with some churches in the area and she gave me a list of churches that I know to be on the more open-minded, non-shaming side of Christianity. (This is not a push to convert you, but if you are questioning your faith, especially in a difficult time, it doesn't hurt to discuss it with people that truly care about your well-being, and don't see you as just a medical record number.)
If you are in a state of concern regarding your pregnancy, or parenthood in general, I hope you find guidance, clarity, support, and peace in your ultimate decision. ❤️